As with most stories, I give you the preface.

This is my journey and my story of my dissolution of marriage.   There are only two options in filing for divorce in California one is the dissolution and second is incurable insanity.   There was an immediate involuntary movement in my mind and therefore my hand to click incurable insanity.  From my point of view my soon to be ex-husband is in desperate need of professional help.  I sighed deeply and now knowing, realize the four years of marriage and eight years of “us” was just an illusion.  I wanted it to end immediately so I checked the dissolution box.  Ending a marriage seems so much more than check this box and fill in this field only. I wanted to convey all the ugly details of being manipulated, betrayed and lied to, where was the box on the form to dump all my emotions into.  Shouldn’t it all be filed together.  The government workers sifting through the court paperwork would have a much better read and could moonlight as writers for the Lifetime Movie Network.  Seriously, how can a court grant a fair divorce with out the sordid and horrible details?  I am starting to understand now, people lie.  It would be hard to find the absolute truth.   That is why I tell you this is my story, I will be as open and honest as possible.